WHEN TOM, DICK AND HARRY MET SALLY




so people ask me how can i say things or give out dictums about love having never experienced
the obsecene infatuation (that passes for love) myself. Let me ask you...does one need to
have jumped down a well himself to know that it is an unwise thing to do, does one need to put
oneself in front of a running bus to know that it is a foolish move? People cannot fall in
love. The most that can happen is one man can find the least irritating and ideally suited
person for him. And there can only be one such woman for every man.
In a world where we form relationships of convinience it would be the most convinient one.
Then how is it that multiple men end up chasing few women with several claiming about one
particular female that she is the one for him or conversely he is the one for her? It is rare
that an ideal woman may exist for a man. It is rarer still that she may be of the same age
group as him. It is even rarer that she will be of the same age group and have the same
background and ethnicity which is especially important in the Indian society. Rarer still
is the fact that she lives in the vincinity or even the same country. Rarer is the chance
that he will ever find her in his lifetime. But rarest of all is the chance that they will
fall in "love" with each other. So several guys wooing for a few girls and one of them
managing to land her isnt love.......its just getting something that u have been obsessed with.
This fact will be noticeable when after getting your girl, ur enthusiasm wanes and slowly u
lose the early interest and passion that you once had. Because the thrill of the chase is
over. And life hereafter will be stagnant....the fun is over..things can only go wrong from
here.